Why are Women "Complicated"?

Some of my guy friends once asked me before "Nganu man gyud mong mga bae nga lisod man mo sabton?" I laughed at the question. Well because they were partially right, and maybe half wrong... or baw 😂. I believe it's different for each women, but generally men think that we are all "Complicated". They're having a hard time figuring us out sometimes. Siguro because some women (or apil ko hahaha), we want men to understand us on their own, bale gusto tang masense bitaw nila kung unsa atong na feel or unsa atong gusto, without us having to tell them what it is. But ladies, not at all times naman kasi na ma interpret dayun ta nila. Ako lang so far, ingani gyud kasagaran ba grr hahahahaha. Sa ubang mga women diha na nasesense agad ng mga partners nila without telling them, good for you 😘😘, but for those hindi, usap muna tayo.

I am guilty of this habit (sauna hap blee) na pag naa koy wa mauyuni or wa ganahi, I don't tell my partner right away. I-agi pa nako una ug hilom2 HAHAHA ahak, or gani cold2 bitaw ug nireplayan, or di kayu managad. Then he would ask "Ok raka? Nay problema?", kani pod laging magpaka mystery puzzle pa gyud ta, bisag di gyud okay, muingon pod ug "Okay rako man, walay problema uy". Edi ayun, mag expect syang wala kay syempre ingon gud tag wala. And then we end up getting more frustrated kay wa ta suyua lol. Whyyyyy do we do this? Ako I do this, kay lagi gusto kong masense niya bisag wa ko niingon. But if you really think about it, na sense naman niya. Ug wala pa siya ka sense, dili unta na siya mamutana ug okay ra ba ka, right? Na twist lang, kay nibalibad man ta and ni insist ta nga okay ta bisag di 😂. Nya gusto pod ta pugson ba hays hahahaha.

Pero naa gyud poy uban laki oy na clueless gyud oy bisag obvious na kaayong di okay, di tagdon grrr. Magpakiramdaman naman tayu jan. Actually not just men, but both men and women. Be sensitive towards each other. If you feel na there's something wrong, ask. And if you're asked, be honest din sa sagot mo. In short, communication is the key. So far pinapractice na namin to ng partner ko, taod-taod lang after we had that long fight lol. Like, if naa koy gihimo na di sya ganahan, he'll be like "Love naa koy iingon". And then chuchuchu. Ug ako pod nay wa mauyuni, I'd say "Love nanglood raba ko.". I swear mas dali ra mahuman, kay ditso naman maingon tanan. Mas dali rasad mastoryahan ug mapangitaag solution.

Pero as what I have mentioned above, it's different for each women. So maybe nay uban diha na "complicated" but for different reasons nga I am not aware of. So what else could it be? Share lang sa Mailbox areng kilid, total, communication is the key man diba hahaha 😘.